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I am brought up in such a way with people of high confidence level. If you are not confident and do not feel that your idea or opinion is important, how would anyone ever trust that you will do a good job. Yes, it is part of a man's ego. But this ego will actually bring you very far. There are certain things good about the man's ego and there are certain things that are bad. If you think that people like us with huge ego should listen more to people's idea and see which idea is better. Let me tell you, i had a better way to deal with it. It is not about just adopting another idea that is better. We should merge the good ideas and eliminate and complement it will others idea. That is how i see it.
I am sorry if you all think i am far from being correct. I am not those group of people who wants to be correct in other words, perfectionist. It is stressful to be a perfectionist. I am not trying to say that being a perfectionist is bad. But lets keep it to an acceptable level. Perfectionist attitudes can always be easily identified. Those who strive to obtain the perfect score of 100%, perfect result are always those group of people. I feel that those people who are smart are those who take shortcuts in life to save time and effort. They are smart because they are flexible to things.
Life is not just about caring about how each other feel. This is over. This are all in your secondary school days where all your real and true friends are. Mr Narrain, a teacher from CCKS, once said that you can only find true friends in your secondary school. Yes, i totally agree with what is being said. I am sorry if i cant care for people's feeling. That may be a flaw but it can also be something that give me an advantage over the others. I am not very affected by how people feel. I dont need to gain people trust so that i know their little secrets. I feel those are just insignificant things to care about and give you stress and stress trying to solve their problem. We should solve our own problems and not try to help solve other problems. As a matter of fact, I did not really bother about trying to solve the sore relationship between EC and YD. But what i wish them to understand is real feelings and thoughts. Conflict unlike decision is all about each other thoughts and feelings. Sometimes it is the person who has the problem and not the other party. Lets be reflective about our own feeling. This is clearly seen from another conflict which has been resolved in our class.
today is a boring and dull post promo day~ haf PW the entire day i cant believe it. even after school we have to do PW! hmm this is the funny video the external vendor showed us. quite funny though i watched a few times already~ he made fun of me! "hey he look in ease now!" yea i went to toilet, damm pissed! all the toilet kena washed... nid to run up and down to look for one.. but didnt regret.. nid to do business :D
i was waiting for the boroquitto and chacha dance! instead we learn the boring and tedious its gonna be me~ i thought its gonna be fun.. turned out to b so dried. so boring. remove the suck word from ur dictionary. no such thing as ajc suck. anything not happy about ajc tell teacher straight. well... its not like the teacher can do anything. the building is so unorganised and old. its like not clean and green :( i prefer my sec sch.. even places without fans are cool to study.. i guess the wrong spots and build thats why is so damm hot everywhere! not conducive for learning.. what contradiction to the school mission. but well haf to live with it for another 2 years. can see major upgrades in the school but i still feel that things are all over the place. renovate liao still will look unorganised. go for PRIME!!! ahaha
Fruit for Thought!
Girls always have the tendency to like guys who are tall and cool. well the very reason is because those tall guys look more stable more an quan gan more reliable. but well! its wrong. i am going to use scientific theory to object! Taller guys have higher C.G. and hence less stable :D